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To The Man Who Emotionally Destroyed Her.

Dear Man,

Hope you remember her. The girl who loved you more than herself, the girl who made you her entire world despite knowing that she was just another contact on your phone who you texted whenever you got tired of your busy life.

May be she was good for your ego, maybe she was some kind of an achievement or a trophy that you could brag about in front of your friends, maybe she was a placeholder, maybe you liked knowing that someone was always available to answer your calls regardless of the time and situation, may be you liked seeing someone trying that hard for you.

There is a whole sea of ‘maybe’s where she is standing right now drowning in her thoughts, questioning her own identity. And she is the only one to be blamed for this because she decided to continue swimming even after hearing the forecast of the coming storm but her mistake was that she considered you as her life guard. You can call her insane for doing what she did, just like what everyone else is saying about her.

  

Her friends shouted, "Are you blind? He doesn’t love you and never will, why can’t you see what he is doing to you?" Little did they know that she was not blind. In reality, she was a coward, coward enough to accept her mistake.

When you entered her life, she was so terrified to let her guard down, she used to build some kind of a wall around herself so that no one could hurt her, you came and promised her that you will be there to help her and slowly you broke that wall brick by brick. She started to believe that you were her savior.

She finally told you her darkest secrets and let you see her deepest wounds. She told you that she was getting addicted to you, to your presence, to your company, your words and she didn’t want this addiction to turn into love. She suggested that you guys should maintain some distance. But you denied and she trusted you and the timing of her life. You remained at the top of her chatting list. From sweet morning messages to good night texts, you shared every tiny detail of your day with her, you discussed new songs and the lyrics you loved the most, you two talked about sweet nothings all day, all night.

By holding your hand she let you in, without realizing that you were slowly becoming her life. You shouldn't have made her fall for you when you knew that you weren’t going to catch her.

She tried her best to not fall for you but her destiny tried it’s best to make her do exactly that. You always said the right things at the right time till one day she finally realized that you were literally the person she always wanted to be with. With this realization, she switched on her self-destruction mode.

Soon you started changing and she stood there puzzled about your behavior. Your long texts got shorter by the second. Everything about her that you previously admired now irritated the hell out of you. You didn’t have time for her anymore and she started blaming herself, thinking that she may have done something wrong.

She kept waiting day and night to hear from you and you were too busy to hear her break down on the phone.

She kept losing herself every time you didn’t answer her call, every time you chose someone else over her. She was always available for you and that bothered you so you chose your plans over her always. She fought with everyone who said anything bad about you, losing her friends she kept defending you just to be called a "fool" by the end of it all.

Today she is feeling sick and really tired, tired of finding reasons behind everything just to stay with you. You made her believe that she could be 'someone’s sometimes' but could never be ‘someone’s forever’.

The journey of loving you was never easy for her, she kept giving up on her self-respect because you were too stubborn to let go off your ego. Finally the day arrived when her biggest fears turned into reality. You decided to leave her by saying, "It’s my mistake, I am sorry." You know what, your 6 words were enough to tear her apart in a thousand pieces. Nothing can be worse than being called your lover's mistake, that the best thing that ever happened to you is guilty for you. She still wondered if it would have hurt any less had you just left without naming her pure love as some unforgivable sin of yours.

Every night she cried herself to sleep trying to figure out what went wrong, she still blamed herself for everything. She screamed, why wasn’t she good enough, shouted your name out loud but you were nowhere to be seen. You made a soul die. She loved you, she still does but now it’s time for her to close this chapter and burn the entire book.

One thing I can promise you, you will look for her in the people you love. One day she’ll be the one not answering your calls, one day she’ll just scroll down your post and status because they’ll not matter then or maybe she doesn’t even have to do that because you’ll be in her block list. You’ll search for her hand whenever you feel lost. You’ll miss her voice when you badly want someone to listen to you.

One day you’ll miss her, her texts, her attention, her efforts, the way she apologized after every fight even if it was not her mistake because for her there was no point in winning an argument over you. You will miss how she cared, her love because it’s rare what she had offered you.

There are a lot of people like you and the day you’ll meet another you, you’ll want her the same way she did.

One day you’ll hear songs that will make you miss her and you will change it as fast as possible. You’ll regret everything and you'd wish you could apologize. And she’ll not be there looking at her phone screen for hours and hours, waiting for your one text to fix everything.

I promise, you’ll realize it but that will be too late because till then she'd have unloved you with every fibre of her being. She'll walk past you not even noticing your presence. Today she realises her worth, she knows she shouldn't have  to cry herself to sleep. She doesn't deserve it.

Now she’ll not settle for mediocre love, for one-night stands or friends with benefits. No not again. She’s worth so much more. She wants someone to love her the way she loved you. She wants to be the reason for someone to want to be a better person, the best that they can ever be.

 

Now she knows you can never be that someone. So losing you is not actually a loss for her, she had lost someone who shouldn’t be there in the first place but you have lost someone who did everything to keep you in that place.

I'm sorry for your loss, my friend.

Holi !!

Holi- Festival of colours!!

Holi! India's Biggest Festival, also known as the "Festival of colours" or the "Festival of love".
The best thing I Love about Holi is Everything - The gujiyas, gulal and the fragrance of gulal, water guns filled with coloured water. ...For those who are more adventurous than me... there is Bhang , lassi too.

So, The festival of colours is right around the corner, and as careful as you can be with your own colours, you never really get to know the quality of colours people are applying on your skin.

so, take these precautionary measures before you step out and indulge in the play of colours.

Precautions Before you step out in the play of colours:

1) Use Herbal Colours:

 
Since it is difficult to tell the difference b/w Natural colours & dye colours, it's necessary to take precautions. Either buy herbal colours, or else make colours at home from Flowers such as tesu or genda, even beetroot juice.

2) Dress Right:

It's advisable to wear long-sleeved clothing. And whatever you do, stick to cotton- it's safer for the skin, let your body breathe and dries up quicker than every other fabric.

3) Oil it up:

And by 'it' I mean pretty much your entire body. Pick an oil that you know suits your skin type- Coconut or mustard oil-and apply it generously on all the body parts that you know are going to be exposed, especially your hair. If the hair and body are oiled well, they won't absorb the harmful colours as much.

4) Don't forget Sunscreen:

Don't forget to apply sunscreen after oiling your body, and make sure it is gel based, waterproof & of SPF 25.

5) The Sun is not your best friend:
I understand that you have to move about, and can't afford to avoid the sun (frankly, you shouldn't, it's Holi!), but once you are so layered on with colours that you can't recognise your own face in the mirror, try to avoid sitting in the sun. Once the colours get baked in the sun, they become even more difficult to get off the skin.

6) Apply Nail Paint:

Apply a thick coat of dark nail paint, preferable the darkest colour possible, and remove it after playing Holi.

7) Keep yourself hydrated:

 
Last but not the least, Drink lots and lots of water before playing Holi. It keeps you hydrated, thus energetic and refreshed.

Wish you and your family a very Happy and Safe Holi !
And please Have a Cruelty-Free Holi,

Don't Throw Colours and water on Animals !

WOMEN'S DAY ! (#MakeItHappen)

 

We Celebrate International Women's Day on 8th March But Some women says that "Every day should be women's day. I have this one thing to say to all - If this day is supposed to mark a change, let's consider it. There is a lot that still needs to change in the way society looks at a woman, still a lot of issues that need to be sorted.There is no problem in dedicating a day to mark the beginning of this change. Instead of opposing or demeaning it, let's be a part of it Ladies !

So here is the new Pledge this women's day- Don't wait for the police or government to come and save you. I know we watch it in films all the time, but that is not how it happens in reality. You have to be your own Hero, take your own safety in your own hands.

Yes, we are good enough to take care of ourselves (Physically). We only need to realise this potential and put it to optimal use.

'No means no' 

This Campaign, along with other causes attached to being a woman, is very important. I don't take it just as a phrase, it is something that needs to be practiced.

 

Feminist?

Yes, I am, but my Definition may not be in conformation with a lot of people. I am a proud feminist but I am not going to bash men, blaming them for all woes woman face. I believe half the reason why women find themselves in a condition that they do today is because they allow others to take decision on their behalf. I don't blame men for that.

I also don't demand any kind of a reservation in terms of pay or college admission- all this is not feminism according to me. It is about getting equal opportunities and making the most of it.

"Being a Feminist doesn't mean you are an extremist. Nor I am. your definition of a feminist may not be the same as mine and that's Okay.

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY !
#Proudtobeawoman

#Let'sMakeaChange :)

Top 5 Online Fashion Stores.

    TOP 5 ONLINE FASHION STORES.

1.  KOOVS.COM

If you are a frequent online shopper then you know that Koovs has been our good old friend from what seems like forever. This site shall never disappoint you and always has something for what you are looking for. They have a lot of trendy stuff, which caters to all your needs.

•  There not many styles on the website but the ones that are present are the most curated products.
• ​They have a fast delivery service and hence are more favored by people.
• ​They usually deliver in 3-5 days at maximum.

Although one major problem of KOOVS is the return policy.
It’s not efficient and proves a problem when you need to change the product.


 1.Oversized Shirt With Binding                                                            2. Rusty Maxi Dress

3. Denim Joggers With Print On Side                      4. Statement Belt

5. Hair Charm String                                              6. Block Heeled Sandals With Back Tie Detail

7.  Trouble Maker Slogan Sliders                                    8. Pom Pom Gladiators



2. AJIO.COM

Ajio is a recent website, launched a couple of years ago.This website is different from all of those mentioned above.

• Ajio has different styles and you would know that if you have a hippy soul.
• ​They have a variety of Indian styles. From fusion wear to bohemian styles, they’ll have you craving for more.
  My take on this? If you haven’t tried it already then go ahead! 

• 1. Embroidered Saree with Contrast Border   2. Embroidered Straight Kurti with High-Low Hemline 

 

 3. Printed Kurta with Dupatta                                           4. Sleeveless Dress with Collar

 5. IKat Print Jacket with TIe-Up                                      6.Antique Tribal Cuff Bracelet

  7. Handwoven Ikat Slip-Ons                                              8. Antique Tribal Necklace



3. FOREVER 21.
 All of us know about F21. It is situated in almost every metropolitan city, and quite famous among girls. 

• With reasonable prices and tons of varieties, F21 has never disappointed girls. This brand is for the ‘modern girl’.
• ​Previously, F21 had did not had an efficient online shopping system but recently they had modified their whole website. It’s efficient, delivers fast and the prices are quite reasonable.
• The best thing about shopping here online is that you F21 cater to your every needs, may that be shoes, bags, accessories, clothes or what so ever.

Personally because of that reason F21 is my all time favorite.


1. Strappy Lacy Bralette                                           2. Floral Off-Shoulder Dress.

3. Patch Graphic Cargo Jacket                           4. Semi-Sheer Floral Maxi Dress

5. I Dont Play Nice Camo Jacket                         6.V-Neck Lace-Trim Bodysuit

 

 7. Bossy Graphic Hooded Nightdress 8. Iridescent Floral Choker

 

 4. STALKBUYLOVE.COM
 

• Stalkbuylove has clothes unlike those you will find at stores,it all different. New clothes are almost added daily and thus the website keeps itself updated with the trends.

• Also, stalkbuylove has look books where they have all the clothes styled so one can look there in case of doubts.

• Prices can be more reasonable and other than that everything is great. The delivery is well made on time.
  
  1.Alexia Choker Neck Bell Sleeves Top 2. Rosia Jeans 3.Striped Oberone Embroidered Shirt Dress 

5. MYNTRA.COM -Myntra is probably the most used fashion website by everyone.

• It is reasonable and with the ever-going sales, it has become an attractive platform for people to shop.
   
• Most of the brands like Only, Vero Moda, Mast and Harbour and other different brands don’t have their individual website and hence due to that people flock to Myntra who offers thousands of brands with every style.
• It offers everything from the recent Western styles to the Indian ones.

There is only one problem, if you are looking for a particular product, it will be tough. They have thousands of styles though which you will have to search to find what you are looking for.

1.DressBerry Women Blue Shirt Dress

2. AKKRITI BY PANTALOONS Women Blue & Pink Printed Maxi Dress

3. Kook N Keech Marvel Women Black Printed A-line Dress 

4. Citrine Women Mustard YellowSolid A-Line Dress
​

All About My 'New" Hair!

                          All About My 'New' Hair !!

so, I went for hair Coloring! And if you all know me, then you know previously I had long Black hair which I got Colored, because I was bored of it. I mean who doesn't need a change in life, right?

It's been a month since I got my hair colored as I thought it was about time I should do experiment wit my hair. 2k17 came with a trend name 'Balayage' , Which is still going strong and as it is, I decided to go for it.

For all of you who don't know, Balayage is a technique for highlighting hair in which the dye is painted on in such a way as to create a graduated, natural-looking effect.

I choose the color 'Light blond with ash reflect (9.11)' from L'Oreal.

The hair coloring process was two hour long which requires much patience ladies, getting your hair colored isn't a piece of cake!

Anyways , In the end, I'm pretty happy with the results and couldn't have asked for more.

As we all know hair color has been a tricky business for Indian girls, especially the ones who have dusky skin tones.
I choose color which went according to my complexion, so all the Wheatish tone girls out there, You can get this look done without a doubt Cheers !!

Pimples, be gone!

                      Pimples, be gone!
I’m jumping with excitement because Monsoon is coming up. As much as I love monsoons, my skin hates it! It gets oily and prone to pimples. Pimples are like that annoying, clingy friend who think “Oh you’re going to a party? Let me come along too.” Pimples are every girl’s enemy, and that too just three days before my shoot?
It was a nightmare. My skin had to look flawless.
So there I was, sitting in distress (which makes things worse btw) googling home remedies to get rid of my pimples and then I came across the Himalaya Purifying Neem face wash. It had neem and turmeric which are excellent to remove impurities from the face and give a radiant complexion. I decided to give it a shot, and VOILA! It felt like my pimple got photoshopped off my face, it was gone!

Since then, I swear by this product. My only regret is that I didn’t try it sooner. It is soap free which means it is not harsh on the skin and is suitable for all skin types. The neem helps get rid of all the dirt and impurities and the turmeric helps even out the skin tone and makes it supple and soft.
Haven’t we all heard our grandmothers’ advice that these two ingredients are great for healthy, happy skin? Well, there you have it! Your grandma’s secret ingredients fit in a bottle to make sure you look your best every day. After all, you look good, you feel good!